Thursday, March 31, 2016

Mom , housewife,daughter who am I ?

Why is it difficult to be a mom

Over the years of being a daughter then a wife and now a mom I have slowly and surely lost the real me , in the midst of juggling several roles . I know as you grow older life throws different challenges at you , you just have to move on stronger and face these challenges and try to give it the best you possible. But in this constant battle to juggle several roles, slowly but surely your needs your passion your dreams take a back seat. It can start form the small things like compromising the food you like over the food your husband or kids like, to larger things like career , time etc.

Over the last few days of soul searching I have really been trying to find the real me, who am I ? what do I like, what do I want from life ? Questions that used to be very easy to answer before but today I am struggling to find answers to.
Life has been limited to the ones between mon and Friday work/School  and the weekends preparing for work/School.

Yesterday I was hearing a talk about soul searching and finding the answers to why you are not happy and grateful for being where you are that it struck a chord with me as to why I can be grateful and happy and why I can make a choice that would truly make me happy ?

Somedays I want to be a mom and some days a career women, why cant I find the one thing that truly makes me happy ?


Over the next few days I am keen to find more about me and explore more things that would add a feather to my hat. By end of this year my goal is to ensure I have learnt new skills, done new things , worked my way closer to a happier me, and most importantly finding me . 

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